Why people cry at weddings

a poem by Chitra Sridar

A weeping woman in the front pew
Often mocked worse than a shameless shrew
Shedding tears on such a happy day
What’s eating her anyway?

Two people so much in love
Pledging life before the Lord above
A memorable moment shared with kin
Doesn’t dim the smile – Should crack a grin.

But little is evident of the changes brought
To family and friends, the couple and the lot.
Everyday lives turned upside down
So many compromises for the Wedding gown.

A chum broods alone having lost a chessmate
Stares at the fire wondering “Call or wait?”
A buddy takes the boat out without the crew
With only sail and water for a lousy view.

A mother thinks twice before a visit
Should I intrude in a room dimly lit?
The doves welcome all to share their cup
Allies decide to let them live it up.

Friends and family alter their lives around
To accommodate the newcomer with joy profound
They bear the loss of a dear friend
While warm wishes to the blessed they send.